When going in you have to keep in mind that if you're going for an abortion it's going to hurt like giving birth and that if you're not in the position financially or emotionally ready for the stress of a child, you're not making the wrong choice. I had an abortion, 16 weeks and although the pain and decision itself was traumatizing the staff is amazingly picked out. As a woman here in Alabama for some reason people think they have an opinion on our bodies and out of everyone's response they took care of me and even sang to blur out the 3 white pro-lifer men outside that apparently have nothing else to do all day.